Saturday, August 11, 2007

them

It has been strange watching Bella and Tess get close and see Megan left behind. It's a natural way of things with Megan younger and more annoying...you know the constant wrecking of toys or just not understanding how to play a game. I have felt bad for Megan many times as the girls cheer when it's her nap time or ask me to help keep her out of their room. I always thought one day she would find her way.



Well, I've been noticing as of late Megan and Tess have been buddying around much more. Perhaps it comes more with age and the fact that they did just have 9 months together while Bella was at school all day to find each other. It has been fun for me to watch them grow and find what works for them. They're so much a like I can see how they fell into play quite easily despite the fact that there really was no one else to play with, but me.

I am glad my girls have each other. That they are finding how to get along and not get along as it seems too much of the time. I pray as they get older they will find that safe place in each other, that being sisters will go way beyond relations, but best friends. It's something I dream for them and as I look at this photo of Tess and Megan and remember how they were telling each other secrets I realize they're right on their way.

16 comments:

Jill said...

I think all 3 of your girls do well together and are so cute. I love how Megan is always saying "I want to see my sisters" or "I'm going to go tell my sisters!"

Natasha said...

I dream that for my children too. In a way I am glad that they are brother and sister (vs. 2 girls or 2 boys) so that there isn't as much "competition" but then sometimes they "compete" as much as ever - for my attention, against each other, etc. I am much closer emotionally to my brother (eight years younger than me) than to my sister, so I always hold out hope that Luci and Griffin will be close when they are grown.

jenny said...

I think we all secretly want our children to be good friends. We have the same issues in our house (except boys) My middle Luke wants to play with his big brother and Weston always wants to join in. Unfortunately he is still to young to play sports or legos resulting in lots of tears. Such a sweet photo.

Crystalyn said...

it's so sweet that they are finding their relationship together. all of your girls are really something special. i'm sure that as time goes on they will only solidy their connections.

i am in love with that picture. wow! you have such a gift for capturing the feeling of what's going on. amazing. and i love megan's big, brown eyes.

Tasha said...

I'm with you, so glad my girls have each other. There is nothing as wonderful as siblings!

Robyn said...

That is such a cute picture. It's sweet that Tess and Bella are so close, even with their different personalities. I am sure the gap will close in the next year or so as Megan gets older and starts to understand how to play the games or gets the jokes, etc. Will she be going to preschool this fall?

I worry about my kids for the same reason. Austin and Olivia are SO different. They have a love/hate relationship. They play so well at times then are ripping each other's hair out the next minute. I hope that they will get over this soon and that Ashley will find a place with them.

michelle said...

I am in love with that photo as well. The secret, the intertwined legs, the closeness... beautiful. Sometimes I feel so sad for Eva that she won't have a sister. It's a good thing she adores her big brothers.

Liz said...

This is a dream that I have for my girls as well. Sometimes it seems like they fight more than they get along though. I love the picture of your two girls. So sweet!

Mandy said...

I love that picture of the girls. I hope they always stay that close. I miss having my sisters by my side.

Anonymous said...

Those legs and feet have my heart aching- the look on Tess's face. This is so how I hope my girls want to be- how I hope they naturally evolve towards each other.

Anonymous said...

I have the same dream for my girls. I love this photo and all it represents about that special relationship.

Price Cream Parlor said...

What a sweet photo! Love it! There is something special about sisters! How fun that they are close!

Lucy said...

I'm awaiting a similar shift with my two youngest boys. Henry is getting to an age where he can actually play, and I wonder where allegiances will lie when they are all mature. This is why I always said I'd have an even number of kids, so everyone could have a buddy at the amusement park. But getting that fourth one is proving daunting!

I like your words:)

jenn said...

I am envious- I don't think any of my kids would be found that close to each other right now unless they were throwing punches.

and, of course, the photo is AMAZING!

annalisa said...

Even if it doesn't happen as children or even as teenagers, your girls can still be the best of friends as adults. Sisters are the best and I can't imagine life without each of mine.

Unknown said...

Oh my goodness, I can finally see this photo...it has taken days visiting for it to pull up for me...what a sweet capture. I love your thoughts, and to see these two girls such good friends. Things I hope and wish for my babies too!

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